a 5-module online course
You’re ready for a satisfying and authentically connected dream relationship!
Without “fixing” your partner
CAN YOU RELATE?
You are tired: You work hard to be a loving and attentive mother, and you want your marriage or relationship to be a source of connection and nourishment!
You’ve done your own personal growth:
therapy
read relationship books
listened to podcasts
and even been in couples therapy
And it’s just not cutting it.
You’re not getting the authentic satisfaction that you know is possible from your relationship.
You have made it work for a long time, but you’re ready for more.
You’ve been showing up every single day trying new techniques with your partner, and you’re starting to think maybe your partner is the problem. You’re even having thoughts like “If he doesn’t change, I will NEVER get my needs met” or “If she doesn’t start really showing up in this relationship, I have no choice but to leave.” You know it takes two to tango, but it really feels like you’re partner is sitting this one out! And you’re not willing to sit on the sidelines of your life!
You’re ready for more stability and satisfaction; more freedom and authenticity in all your relationships; more time for enjoying family vacations, having fun together and modeling a way of family for your kids that you are proud of!
“Everyone should do this course before couples therapy as a foundation for relational work.”
-L.H.
What does a dream relationship look like?
You know your own patterns and how they loop in with your partner’s.
You catch your cycle sooner.
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You are rooted in a foundation of values for your dream relationship. You know what you want and why.
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You can break free from your habitual roles that keep you stuck. You know how to be at choice with your own satisfaction.
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You lead in your relationship towards what you REALLY want.
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My Reality
I have satisfaction no matter what is happening with partner.
I am free to ask for what I need and want.
We know how to have disagreements and amazing connection.
I am showing my daughters what healthy relationships look like.
We have a highly functioning household and family.
My mission is to help all women have deep satisfaction and freedom in their lives and relationships!
I am a therapist, an artist, a homemaker, a gardener . . . . I have juggled it all with deep curiosity. And I’m here to say, it’s possible for you too!
I want to show YOU how to make this YOUR reality!
Introducing . . .
For women ready to build their dream relationship
and a life of satisfaction and authenticity!
What you’ll get:
~ 5+ hours of video recordings teaching you about:
Relationship systems and patterns
Habitual defenses and how to get out of them
Universal dependency needs
Using your primary emotions
How to lead your partner towards what you want
~ A masterclass on continuing the work after the course
~ Personal responses from Mallikaika to your questions
~ Plus a opt-in Bonus (see bleow)
All of this for less than the price of 3 couples therapy sessions
$899 $674
25% off for January 2025
with code “NewYear25”
a 5-module online course
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Module 1: You In The System
See your relationship in a new way. Discover the pitfalls you’re in and the patterns that are specific to your relationship.
Tool: Reflecting and Joining
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Module 2: Rooted In Your Dream Relationship
Dig deep to find the roots, the values at the foundation of your relationship.
Tool: Goal, Role, Context
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Module 3: Breaking Free
What are Habitual Roles, how do they keep you stuck in suffering and how do you undo them? Learn about things like: Shame, Anxiety, Outrage.
Tool: Fork In The Road
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Module 4: Leading The Way
Learn how to speak to what you want in a way that your partner responds well to. Pulling all the tools together, you can now lead towards what you’re really wanting in your partnership!
Tool: Ways To Use Your Voice
Bonus
Coach In Your Pocket
With this course, you have the option to get
a week of support via voice messaging on Signal
Message me your questions in real time. Get support as you begin to
implement these frames and tools.
What people are saying
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"Everyone should do this course before couples therapy as a foundation for relational work”.
— L.H.
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"I appreciate your straightforward, informative, loving style of sharing such important and complex parts of our human experience.”
— S.C.
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"This work is a combination of spiritual, emotional, and practical support, all while threading together the primary themes of connection, boundaries, and attunement."
— L.B.
You are the perfect fit to build your dream relationship if . . .
You’ve done therapy, couples therapy or personal growth and want more practical and applicable tools for changing your experience in your relationship.
You want long-term partnership that is alive, satisfying and healing.
You are not willing to sacrifice your needs and wants. You are committed to satisfaction, authentic connection and interdependence in your relationship!
You are ready to have a deep look at yourself and implement new perspectives and tools to finally see real change in your relationship.